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"When
your horse follows you without being asked, when he rubs his
head on yours, and when you look at him and feel a tingle
down your spine...you know you are loved."
~ John Lyons |
Our
Horses
As strange as it may seem, adding a horse to the growth and
learning equation may be the missing piece you’ve been
looking for.
Those who are familiar with horses recognize and understand
the power of horses to influence people in incredibly
powerful ways. The benefits of work ethic, responsibility,
assertiveness, communication and healthy relationships have
long been recognized. Horses naturally provide these
benefits.
Why Horses?
Those who are familiar
with horses recognize and understand the power of horses to
influence people in incredibly powerful ways. Developing
relationships, training, horsemanship instruction, and
caring for the horses naturally affects the people involved
in a positive manner.
The benefits of work ethic, responsibility, assertiveness,
communication, and healthy relationships has long been
recognized. Horses naturally provide these benefits. The use
of horses is growing and gaining popularity with the rise of
new approaches in working with the horses, including the
field of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy.
We are often asked, "Why horses? Why not other animals?"
Horses are large and powerful, which creates a natural
opportunity for some to overcome fear and develop
confidence. The size and power of the horse are naturally
intimidating to many people. Accomplishing a task involving
the horse, in spite of those fears, creates confidence and
provides for wonderful metaphors when dealing with other
intimidating and challenging situations in life.
Horses are very much like humans in that they are social
animals. They have defined roles within their herds. They
would rather be with their peers. They have distinct
personalities, attitudes, and moods. An approach that seems
to work with one horse, does not necessarily work with
another. At times, they seem stubborn and defiant. They like
to have fun. In other words, horses provide vast
opportunities for metaphorical learning. Using metaphors, in
discussion or activity, is an effective technique when
working with even the most challenging individuals or
groups.
Horses require work, whether in caring for them or working
with them. In an era when immediate gratification and the
"easy way" are the norm, horses require people to be engaged
in physical and mental work to be successful, a valuable
characteristic in all aspects of life.
Most importantly, horses have the ability to mirror exactly
what human body language is telling them. Many people will
complain, "The horse is stubborn. The horse doesn’t like
me," etc. But the lesson to be learned is that if they
change themselves, the horses respond differently. Horses
are honest, which makes them especially powerful messengers.
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